Be a Man

What does it mean to “be a man?” Think about your answer, and then try to remember where you learned that. Most boys learn to define masculinity early in life, and unfortunately some of those definitions are not always helpful. One of my favorite parts of my work is examining how ideas of manliness are learned and passed through generations. These often-difficult conversations can help men of all ages learn to explore and clarify their values. The good news is that it is never too late to start this conversation. Give it a try.

I often recommend the movie The Mask You Live In (2016) to families. I also recommend this Ted Talk by Joe Ehrmann.